They are not Children

I've heard people say it. I've read it, but the last time it was directed at me and it was my Achilles heal I guess. While in session with a physical therapist, chatting about my work, she blurted out that she has a dog, she loves her dog, but she would not spend "that kind" of money on him After all, he's not a child.

This statement brought up several uncomfortable issues for me. First being the feeling of a personal attack. I mean, she basically just invalidated my work, what I believe in. Second, why did she think it was appropriate to tell me that at all? I am her patient for crying out loud. We weren't on a personal level. Quite unprofessional. Third, what does that statement really mean?

"He is not a child". As in; a person between birth and full growth; a boy or girl: a son or daughter; a baby or infant? No. But in the sense that many people feel the emotional bond with their dog, the important relationship they have with their animal means the world to them.

Our 'pets' are dependent on us for nearly everything, food, water, shelter, companionship, the basics of life. Quality of life for them is where the biggest differences arise, between 'pet ownership' and our dog being an equal member of the family. Most people I know equate love with the emotional bond and level of closeness they feel with their animal. For instance, it is hard to believe that a person who leaves their dog outside, rain or shine, hot or cold has the same level of loving relationship with the person that sleeps with their dog.

My point is that we have 'adopted' this living, breathing being, brought it into our home and family. By doing so we have committed to caring for it. The level of care is open to interpretation, just as it would be for a human child, as long as the basics are met. But it was a decision we made and it was a life changing decision. Much more so for this animal than for us. They are our dependents, who rely on us and want nothing more than to please us and be with us. For many people that is the difference. Their dogs love them unconditionally. I can't say that for a biological child. So why is that not important enough to some people?

Many of my clients have children but they had their dog first. Others have children who have grown and moved on, living their own lives. And there are others who have no children. Many of these people, men and women, have confided in me that they love their dogs more than they can express. The dog is their 'child'. That does not mean they love their biological children less, but that these amazing animals bring a kind of love to their lives that no one else has.

An exciting Move

Beautiful even on a foggy day

I can not tell you how excited I am to be moving my business to my home. Once you see the setting and have a massage in this beautiful place you will understand. My office in Edmonds was a nice location. Downtown was a fun diversion when I had breaks. Devi enjoyed walking around down there and the shop owners are friendly people. I will miss the downtown Edmonds energy.

Energy is the key word of this post. I am realizing the feeling I have when looking out at the lake from my windows is that of Nature's energy and the spirit of life lifting me, reminding me of the importance of each moment.

Echo Lake is a small, humble lake that is spring fed. It is a natural wonder tucked away in a bustling suburban neighborhood. At the moment and until the deciduous trees leave out again, I can see a peek of Highway 99's traffic flash by between two buildings across the lake. Once in awhile a little traffic noise comes through. Mostly though, it is the sound of ducks, geese and children playing that I hear, sometimes punctuated by a neighbor floating by in a canoe or kayak saying "HI".

My sincere hope is that even though I have a small space to accommodate massage and Reiki sessions, the people receiving them feel as comforted as I am by the natural beauty and the warmth and spirituality of my home.

An added bonus is the Interurban Trail runs along my street, leading to sweet little Echo Lake park about a hundred yards from my house. It is a small park with a little beach, benches, a grassy area and lots of ducks. In the summer it is full of neighborhood kids all squeezing together on the itty bitty beach with their Moms or guardians lying in the grass catching sun and warmth. All together a lovely park. Be sure to allow some extra time to take a walk after your session with me.